You're Not a Parent. You're a Butler.

Your kids are being raised — by the school, the teachers, other kids, other kids' parents, a therapist, whatever's on the phone. Just not by you. And then we act surprised at the results.

From Friday's show: why "let her do whatever she wants" isn't parenting, why the phone, the iPad and the TV go away the first time they're misused and the books come out, why kids need to be uncomfortable sometimes, why you have about 14 years, not 18 — and why tying shoes and making breakfast isn't raising a kid. That's being a butler.